Don't get hung up on your relationship. Being all worried and flustered about stuff will never make a good relationship work. What women need to do is be themselves. If a man wants to be with you, he should be with the real you. The you that makes blunders, has the bad hair day occasionally and yes uses the toilet.
I am no expert on relationship, but I know a thing or two about surviving the bad time in a relationship. Someone once told me that relationship is like an animal that you care for, you have to walk it daily, feed it and administer love and affection. Now making it through the worst of times require all of the above.
Both partners love to be the centre of the relationship, so take turns, don't be the greedy one. Make it a habit to genuinely care about the person you intend to be involved with. Make it a habit to walk the dog, they love it. It's all about simple happiness. It doesn't take much to make people happy if you think about it.
For instance, a woman loves events and shining in the spot light, even for a moment; but knowing that she has a man who cares deeply for her and he is a keeper (meaning their qualities are compatible), she will step away from all that individuality and stand by his side to be viewed as one, a complete package. If she tries to make you happy and you are, then she is happy also. So, its a sharing and compromising thing.
Please note if you are a selfish individual, you should not enter into an agreement that will require a covenant of marriage, because something has to give. If you are willing to change your habits, willing to grow and work as a team then there is a possibility for a beautiful relationship.
Remember, I'm no expert on love and relationship, but being in a covenant relationship for over eleven years, I can say something about the rough spots all developing relationships go through.
So, there you have it, my say about it.
TAFLA says.
